So I have a bad case (is there any other?) of love-sickness and I'm wondering what's purpose it has. Really think about it, you or the other breaks-up the relationship and you feel bad. What's the whole purpose in that mechanism?
I understand that when falling in love, you have the urge to be with the other and make lots of love. That, I'm not a specialist, could be because our nature is to reproduce. Having intercourse with each other a few times a day should take care of that, right?
Now, in that light, why does leaving a person hurt so much. I mean, even when you know its the better thing to do? It's weird, isn't it? So far I've found different kinds of love sicknesses on the web.
- People who cannot cope with the intensity of love, have been destabilised by falling in love.
- People who suffer on account of their love being unrequited.
I guess I'm in the latter and I chose to be so. The thing is that, I'm a person that goes by his gut feeling, hence the love sickness, but chose because of previous experiences (I'm a veteran) not to relive such drama's again. Still it's feels like crap.
I thought that being 31 would change some things, besides knowing what's coming next it feels just as crappy. I guess by the time I'm 80 I would still the same thing. Did this article change anything for me? It didn't and I didn't expect it would. So I'm off to the pub and try to drink my sorrows away with a friend of mine LOL.
Cheers!